Nappy Kitchen

Damn homie.. your fro is seriously on the grow

*Grrrrrrrrrrrrr jealous growl*

Mine is on the grow too, but not like that.. Do tha damn thang Miss Lisa !!!!!

What did Jay-Z say? Gon' brush ya shouldas off! People will always have something to say but you gotta keep doing you ;) It always amazes me that people will come into a hair album and try to push their opinions on you. I like the picture personally *shrugs* ANYWAY ya hair is looking great!

Kudus on your response. I actuallylike that image. It was assertive, powerful yet feminin. Tasteful nudity is not such a bad thing.. and that picture looked like she had all she had under control.. ya con't beat that...kudus

Although I don't particularly agree with the whole exhibitionism thing, I don't hold anything against anyone who fancies it. I, for one, am a huge fan of Pam. Not the actress, but the sex symbol. These nouveau divas wish they could possess one tenth of the sexiness she exudes. And she did it all while sportin' a fro'! She is, in my eyes, one of the most beautiful women that ever lived.
Great subject!

Much love...
Zulay

it cracks me up how a woman posing nude for money and fame is seen as 'powerful' and 'in control.' its ironic that men don't have to pose nude for money and power. hmmmm.

It's not seen as powerful and in control by everyone. Every case is different.I try my best to refrain from making blanket statements and I'm pretty sure I didn't. The power I saw was relegated to a few images of Ms. Grier, not every woman that shows her tiddies to the world. Besides, it's been established a long time ago that men are different than women. We've always had to walk different paths to get to the same end result. So nothing to hmmm about...that's a fact of life.

there's plenty to hmmm about. maybe if we stop accepting the status quo and being so complacent talkin bout "that's just life" perhaps things would be different? there is nothint 'powerful' nor 'in control' about any woman who is posing nude for men to just stare at her nude body tellin their friends "damn this bitch got some big titties."

I'm inclined to believe that the hmmming is a subjective thing. Just because one person feels that the fate of the world rests on a woman's bared tiddies does not mean that everyone subscribes to that particular line of thinking. I try hard not to generalize. I never once said that all women that pose naked are powerful and in control. Maybe big tiddies ain't cute and maybe it is. It's a personal thing. Bottom line is you will never find me holling and screaming about what some grown ass woman chooses to do with her body. Status quo? Shoot last time I checked it was actually status quo for posing nude to be a bad thing. I'd be willing to hazard a guess that more women than not are not even down for that shit.

Now if I felt that nudity in general was responsible for the current state of the world I would be all for telling a heffa to cover herself. As it is, I do believe society has bigger fish to fry.

Bottom line is, everyone's entitled to their own opinion. A person would be committing the most insane type of fuckery to even attempt to project their issues and beliefs onto the next person. I'm a strong believer of letting people believe what they want as it very rarely affects me. Don't attempt to disabuse me of my notions and I'll return the favor.

"maybe if we stop accepting the status quo and being so complacent talkin bout "that's just life" perhaps things would be different?"

We? Hmmm...need a blanket for that statement? Change often starts with one person. But I find it's a shitload easier for people to talk about doing some shit and pass judgment on those they perceive aren't doing their part rather than shut the fuck up and start the paradigm shift their own damn selves. Actions speak louder than words. You're not satisfied with the supposed status quo then change the shit. Speaking about how fucked up the world is takes energy. Use all that brain power for good and don't worry about us intellectual peons that are apparently merrily running modern society into the ground. Eventually we'll follow the example that you and others of your ilk establish like the little lemmings that we are!

i didn't know it was that deep. i didn't know that the fate of the world rested on that pam grier pic either, thanx for letting me know. you do not know what i am doing in my own life and just because i have an opinion about something does not mean that i am passing judgement. in my opinion women like pam grier and the modern day version, lil kim bring women down. so many of us try so hard to not be viewed as nothing more than our body parts and the pam griers of the world sure ain't helping.

Um..Lena if you have a problem with Pam Grier and Lil Kim why don't you take that up with them? Lisa didn't endorse this message. Don't take anything that anyone else does as personal. Yo you are only responsible for yourself on this journey. If I want to put Pam Grier on my tee shirt or on my web site- Imma do it. And if you don't like it, it's your problem not mine.

looks like you're the one getting offended by what someone else does (namely me expressing my opinion). i don't give two shits about who you decide to put on your site. not that i visit your site anyway. have a nice day.